Don't try this at home, kids.

First, let me state that I truly believe that the Lord intended to bless me when he gave me four step-children. Really, I believe that. But I also know that what God intends as a blessing is usually something we have to work at. And I often wonder if I have completely blown this one.

My oldest stepson's 16th birthday is approaching. Of the four, he was the first to decide to call me Mom. That was when he was about six. They've all since gone back to calling me Teri, and I can't say that I blame them. We've all had a tough time of this.